For Information on weddings  and
other special occasion ceremonies in
Asheville and Western North Carolina
contact Rev. Georgette Cressend
at 828-645-0514
compassionatejoy@yahoo.com
Wedding Officiant, Asheville and Western NC
Rev. Georgette Cressend ministers from the heart. Her loving and calm presence
has your ceremony come alive with meaning and personality, YOUR personalities!

Whatever you can imagine can be woven into your ceremony to create exactly
what you both want. Whether you desire a large or small gathering, a traditional
or non-traditional approach, she will work with you so that your ceremony best
expresses the unique love that you share.
(See ceremony ideas below.)

Your wedding is an opportunity to express the deepest, inner-most love that each
of you are. It is an invitation to live your life from a place of authenticity and
connectedness where you allow the needs of another to be in a position of equal
value to your own. Rev. Georgette considers it a honor to be a part of your union.
Rev. Georgette Cressend with
Amanda and Jon

"Our wedding simply would not
have been the same without
Georgette as our officiant. Her
kindness, compassion, and
tenderness is expressed
wonderfully through her
beautiful, poetic words and  
presence. I highly recommend
her to anyone wanting to
enhance their special occasion!"
-- Amanda and Jon
Have the wedding of your
dreams….a personalized
ceremony that reflects your
unique relationship.
We will meet on the phone, through email, or in person.
If we decide that we are a match,we can reserve your date and time with a non-refundable
deposit of half the fee. Your deposit then applies towards the fee. Once you've reserved my
services, I will get right to work on your ceremony scripting, writing up everything that we
worked on at our meeting. The other half of the fee is due at the wedding .

After we meet
Within a week or two after we meet, you will receive the wedding ceremony script for your
review.  This writing out of the scripting for your review is especially important and unique to my
services. I offer this so that you will always know exactly what to expect. With this complete
scripting in hand, you will feel secure and confident knowing that your wedding ceremony is
personalized and customized to reflect your beliefs, values, and wishes.

Changes
Once you receive your scripting, you can review it  to make sure that everything is exactly how
you want it. If there are changes, just email them to me. I will make the changes and send you a
newly revised scripting for a second (or third) review.

Rehearsal
By this point, you'll have the complete and final scripting, with any and all changes you
requested.   If one is scheduled, and at your request, I will attend the rehearsal.   

After the Ceremony
You will bring the marriage license, and I will have the witnesses sign it.  I will file license with the
appropriate authority.  (See obtaining the marriage license below)
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Rev Georgette Cressend  with
David and Karri in Asheville
"My husband and I had the immense pleasure
of having Rev. Georgette Cressend lead our  
marriage ceremony on June 24th, 2006. She
was highly recommended by  personal friend
of ours and from the moment we met with her,
we knew this was going to be a very special
and sacred event. She took the time to get to
know us, spiritually and as an eager couple
ready to commit ourselves to 'relationship' and
to God. She brought so many ideas and
thoughts to the ceremony and we were just
overwhelmed with her enthusiasm and her
glowing spirit!  The day of our ceremony was
filled with immense love of course, but Rev.
Georgette brought such a powerful light to
each and every one of us...it was electric. Her  
spirit filled us and our family & friends with the
most conscience and loving union we could
have ever asked for. She continues to be the
very present in our lives and we are forever
grateful for her unconditional love and light. We
would highly recommend Rev. Georgette to
lead your commitment ceremony."
--Karri & David
Georgette's services include:

*A getting acquainted meeting in person, on the phone or through email.

*If we decide to work together, there is unlimited contact available, in-person, by phone and e-mail .

*Your choice of ceremony, whether religious, spiritual, interfaith, secular, or non-denominational, will be sent to you via
email (or regular mail) to review and make changes if needed.

*Attendance at the rehearsal, if requested.

*Mail license to appropriate authorities.

*Counseling, nurturing and any other help needed along the way.

*A calm presence to keep the stress levels down.

*Fees starting at $300 with a non-refundable deposit of half of the fee to secure the date. Fees are quoted on an
individual basis and are based on rehearsal attendance or not, travel time, and designing the ceremony.
Candle Ceremony
The  Candle Ceremony consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles held
by the bride and groom. This ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative
variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any
designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or
during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle (some re-light the candle each year on
their anniversary).

The Blessing of the Rings;
The wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond which unites two loyal hearts in endless
love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living together in unity, love
and happiness for the rest of their lives.
Breaking of the Glass
The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for Jewish
ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. “Breaking the glass serves to
remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and everyone -
should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final
as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning
of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or
infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so
difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride
and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and
love of their life."

Children Services
Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony. There are
numerous ways this may be done. Ask us about the Family Medallion Ceremony.

Flower Ceremony
This is a family/friends ceremony. Each designated person comes up and places a different
flower in a vase to create a garden of love.

Hands Ceremony
A recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the officiant uses
the phrasing, "These are the hands that...." in order to create a preliminary set of vows
(although this is often used in place of traditional vows).

Honoring the Mothers
A brief reading is done and then the bride and/or groom present their mother(s) with a small
gift (flowers usually).

Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance
Both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names
or a general statement.

Ribbon Ceremony/Handfasting
The ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The officiant loosely binds the hands
together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony

Rose Ceremony
A symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this
have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony.

Support from Families Service
Parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The officiant asks who brings this couple
to be wed.

Wine or Water Ceremony
The couple share a cup of wine or water while the officiant says a blessing and a reading.
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Rev Georgette Cressend with
Jon and Amanda on top of
Chimney Rock, NC
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known as a
wedding site
mecca
. It offers amazing,
panoramic views. Choose
from a mountain top 3000
plus feet up,  a small bed &
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mountain stream and
anything in between.  
Rev Georgette with
Dedra and Mike .
Living As Love
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A heartfelt thank you for the wonderful service
that made our wedding everything we had
dreamed of and more!   We deeply appreciate  
your enthusiasm,  humor, flexibility and most
importantly for helping to make our day the most
special of our lives.  Our family and friends
continue to say it was the most loving ceremony
they have ever attended.
                  -Dedra and Mike
Rev Georgette with  Holly and Michael
"The wedding created many memories.  
Thank you for  making it so special for all of
us."
          -Grandma Jean