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| Applications are accepted at Register of Deeds offices M-F, 8:30 am - 4:30 pm. Times may vary by county. Age requirement 18 (under 18 w/parental consent) -- Under 21 requires birth certificate Waiting Period: none Blood Test: none Cost: $50 cash Both parties must apply, in person, at the same time at the Register of Deeds in any County in North Carolina. Both parties must bring a photo ID and a Social Security card. (or some form that includes SS# such as tax return, pay stub, etc License is valid for 60 days and marriage may take place anywhere in North Carolina. |
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| Divorced applicants must provide the month and year of their last divorce. If the divorce was finalized within 30 days of applying for the marriage license, the applicant must provide an original or certified copy of the divorce decree. There is no waiting period between the divorce and applying for the new license. Bring the marriage license (and the return envelope provided by the Register) to the rehearsal. If a rehearsal is not planned, the license must be presented before the ceremony takes place. The marriage license must be at the ceremony or the marriage is not valid. Immediately after the wedding ceremony the marriage license will be signed by two chosen witnesses, usually the best man and maid/matron of honor. The newly married couple do not need to sign the license after the ceremony; this signature was required at the time of issuance. The marriage license will be signed by the officiating minister who is responsible for returning it to the Register of Deeds in the county where it was issued. You will not automatically receive a certified copy. A certified copy of the marriage license may be obtained after the original license is returned and recorded at the Register of Deeds office. At the same time the marriage license is obtained, the county gives cost information and a form to request a certified copy by mail. The certified copies cost $10.00 and you will probably want to request at least two copies. |
| For Information on weddings and other special occasion ceremonies in Asheville and Western North Carolina contact Rev. Georgette Cressend at 828-645-0514 compassionatejoy@yahoo.com |
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| My approach honors your wishes and is universal in its message. Whether you desire a large or small gathering, or a traditional or non-traditional approach, I will work with you so that your ceremony best expresses the unique love you share. Whatever you can imagine, can be woven into your ceremony to create this special event! (See ceremony ideas below.) Your wedding ceremony is an opportunity to express the love that is the essence of each of you. It is an invitation to rise above the separateness of “me” into the wholeness of “we” as One, allowing the needs of another to be in a position of equal value to your own. |
| Rev. Georgette Cressend with Amanda and Jon |
"Our wedding simply would not have been the same without Georgette as our officiant. Her kindness, compassion, and tenderness is expressed wonderfully through her beautiful, poetic words and presence. I highly recommend her to anyone wanting to enhance their special occasion!" -- Amanda and Jon |
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| Have the wedding of your dreams….a personalized ceremony that reflects your unique relationship. |
| We will meet on the phone, through email, or in person. If we decide that we are a match,we can reserve your date and time with a non-refundable deposit of half the fee. Your deposit then applies towards the fee. Once you've reserved my services, I will get right to work on your ceremony scripting, writing up everything that we worked on at our meeting. The other half of the fee is due at the wedding . After we meet Within a week or two after we meet, you will receive the wedding ceremony script for your review. This writing out of the scripting for your review is especially important and unique to my services. I offer this so that you will always know exactly what to expect. With this complete scripting in hand, you will feel secure and confident knowing that your wedding ceremony is personalized and customized to reflect your beliefs, values, and wishes. Changes Once you receive your scripting, you can review it to make sure that everything is exactly how you want it. If there are changes, just email them to me. I will make the changes and send you a newly revised scripting for a second (or third) review. Rehearsal By this point, you'll have the complete and final scripting, with any and all changes you requested. If one is scheduled, and at your request, I will attend the rehearsal. After the Ceremony You will bring the marriage license, and I will have the witnesses sign it. I will file license with the appropriate authority. (See obtaining the marriage license below) |
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| Rev Georgette Cressend with David and Karri in Asheville |
| "My husband and I had the immense pleasure of having Rev. Georgette Cressend lead our marriage ceremony on June 24th, 2006. She was highly recommended by personal friend of ours and from the moment we met with her, we knew this was going to be a very special and sacred event. She took the time to get to know us, spiritually and as an eager couple ready to commit ourselves to 'relationship' and to God. She brought so many ideas and thoughts to the ceremony and we were just overwhelmed with her enthusiasm and her glowing spirit! The day of our ceremony was filled with immense love of course, but Rev. Georgette brought such a powerful light to each and every one of us...it was electric. Her spirit filled us and our family & friends with the most conscience and loving union we could have ever asked for. She continues to be the very present in our lives and we are forever grateful for her unconditional love and light. We would highly recommend Rev. Georgette to lead your commitment ceremony." --Karri & David |
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| Unity Candle Ceremony The Unity Candle Ceremony consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles held by the bride and groom. This ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle (some re-light the candle each year on their anniversary). The Blessing of the Rings; The wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond which unites two loyal hearts in endless love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living together in unity, love and happiness for the rest of their lives. |
| Rev Georgette with Jessica and Andy |
| Breaking of the Glass The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for Jewish ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. “Breaking the glass serves to remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life." Children Services Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony. There are numerous ways this may be done. Ask us about the Family Medallion Ceremony. Flower Ceremony This is a family/friends ceremony. Each designated person comes up and places a different flower in a vase to create a garden of love. Hands Ceremony A recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the officiant uses the phrasing, "These are the hands that...." in order to create a preliminary set of vows (although this is often used in place of traditional vows). Honoring the Mothers A brief reading is done and then the bride and/or groom present their mother(s) with a small gift (flowers usually). Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance Both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names or a general statement. Ribbon Ceremony/Handfasting The ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The officiant loosely binds the hands together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony Rose Ceremony A symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony. Support from Families Service Parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The officiant asks who brings this couple to be wed. Wine or Water Ceremony The couple share a cup of wine or water while the officiant says a blessing and a reading. |
| Rev Georgette Cressend on top of Chimney Rock, NC |
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